Melinda, Tara + Karina

TRIGGER WARNING: Graphic Material. 

I felt sick reading the local news headlines this morning. Melinda Horner, a 36-year-old woman from Burleigh Waters, was murdered by her partner over the weekend. Another domestic violence statistic, just a few suburbs away from us.

It was only a couple of months ago that I was left reeling after hearing the news about Tara Brown, a beautiful, vibrant young woman from the Gold Coast who was bashed to death with a metal object in her car by her former partner, after he allegedly ran her off the road. Continue reading

human experience, politics, refugees

Ignorance is Not Bliss

I was fortunate to spend a lot of time overseas often as a child. A credit to my parents, I remember having a genuine sense of wonder around new languages, cities, clothes, music, food and architecture, and that sense of wonder has really carried through into my adulthood. I guess that’s why I married an Egyptian (lol).

Often I find that the challenge – or at times, hilarity – of a language barrier still gives me a thrill! I love to try new cuisines. I still marvel at art and architecture from all kinds of backgrounds. So while it may sound idealistic or perhaps even totally naïve: I’ve always struggled to understand the construct of racism. It just doesn’t add up in my brain. I still can’t relate to how one person could hate another person they don’t even know based on the colour of their skin, or their religion, or their country of origin. In my head it seems like straight up lunacy. I don’t mean to say that I’ve never had an uncomfortable interaction with anybody – because I have. What I do mean to say is that I marvel in that we are all unique, with our own background, heritages, and stories. I feel that we have so much to learn from each other.  Continue reading